Rabu, 30 Maret 2011

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The Best Thing for Children
Many of us know that parent always give their affection to their children. Parents have something that always makes the children feel comfort with them. Actually parents can be a friend for their children. Because, parents have experience in their life that can make their children know about this life. And they want to give the best thing for their children. They want to give the best in many aspects. The best thing in their religion, education, attitude, decency, and other things. They really know what the best thing for their children.

Generally we know that parents always give their affection to their children. Until the family as we know it ceases to exist, nobody will dare to analyze parental affection as distinguished from that general human sympathy which has secured to many an orphan fonder care in a stranger's house than it would have received from its actual parents. Usually parents know what their children want, but children don’t know what their parents want. As we know that parents will give anything for their children. Children are valuable thing for them. Parents will not give bad thing for their children’s life.
The second reason, children can feel comfort with their parents, but sometimes they didn’t comfort with them. Parents know what way to make the children comfort with them. Children need to share their problem to another person. And parent is the best place for share the problem. Parents have good solution for the children problem. An inhibited teenager may wish to cover up their pain with solitary distraction while the uninhibited one may seek the continuing company of familiar peers who knew the victim. Although they may seem extreme at times, most reactions will fall within normal limits. Besides that parents understand what their children feel. As a parent, they always think what their children feel. They can feel what their children feel. If they are sad, happy, etc. And parents know it.
The third reason, parents have desire for their children. Every parent wants to see their children success in the future. So, they give the best thing for their children’s life. For example some private schools do an excellent job of meeting the needs of gifted children, while others don't. Many public schools do not do a good job of meeting the needs of gifted children, but others do an excellent job. However, individual teachers also matter a great deal. An excellent school may have a teacher who does not work well with gifted children.
Another thing is give the best thing in their religion. A great piece of advice for teaching religion to your children is not to use it as a form of mind control-through ideas of divine punishment and retribution. Inflicting a fear factor to their kids over religion is certainly not the way to go. God should be reflected as a loving, tolerant and forgiving supreme being. Teaching children that God is loving also teaches them tolerance and respect for all. As the parent consistently use whatever scripture, ascribe to as a tool of fear and control their kids are going to grow up with resentment towards them and religion. Whether there is a God or not should not be the issue. It is how the idea of God and religion is presented to their children by them.
So, parents can make everything is good for their child. They know what they will do and what will they need. Become a parent is not easy but we will feel satisfied show our children success in the future.

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